Signs that you have met the one

March 24, 2015


I'm writing this right now because I've been asked by many people how I know if somebody is the one that I'm destined to meet, destined to be together and spend the rest of my life with. This is how I always reply them:

When you first met him, your gut feeling tells you that he's going to be somebody important in your life. You just know, he is the one. 

When both of you get together, it sounds cliche as hell but everything around you - your surroundings, the people around you just don't exist. It just seems like both of you are living in a fairy tale. 

You will feel like you are the best couple that ever existed and walked this earth.

You won't find a need to compare your relationship with anybody else, especially if you are a competitive person always wanting to be the best in everything though it isn't a competition. There is no thoughts like, 'Aw, the boyfriend did xxx for the girlfriend why can't my boy be like that too? ' All those negative feelings - jealousy, inferiority just disappears. 

You will feel like you are the luckiest girl alive, that your guy is the prince charming. 

Everyone has a different definition of perfect in their eyes. Looks and personality wise. Some girls like bad boys while some love nerds. Some guys like model-like figure girls whereas some like girls with curves. The person that you meet will fit perfectly into your definition of perfect, it's as if the person is made for you.

You can't wait to show him to everyone you meet. You want people to know about him because you are proud being with him. 

During the honeymoon period, you will go through all the things people say you would; butterflies in your tummy, cheeks flustered whenever you think you said something silly, you change at least 3 outfits before heading out to meet him/her. However, even all these things fade, you will still feel like you have the best companion you would ever had, even when his 'flaws' starts to show.

You wouldn't want him to change anything. His flaws would be deemed as a quirks that you'll grow to love. Flaws like how he loses his temper easily when he couldn't take critics well, how he always love to do things at the very last minute, how he spends his money as if it's free, how he is always late but you're one who can't stand for tardiness. 

You'll love everything about him, even to the little details like the cologne he uses and what watch he wears, how he smiles his high defined cheekbones would show.

You will understand him/her and know what he/she is going to do next. You know them so well that you could complete each other's sentences. 

He/she would point out each and every of their flaw but you don't feel like it's a flaw, but just another side of them they feel embarrassed about. 

You will never understand why he/she doesn't have the confidence, when all you ever see in them is greatness and someone full of potential to glow like a star. 

You will feel like you need to hold on tight to the person because you would never, ever meet someone else like him/her. The feeling of irreplaceable is so overwhelming that you tend to hold onto the person maybe a little too tight.

Even when there is a fight, you know at the end of the day you both are going to make up because you love the person too damn much to stay mad at them. A relationship without occasional fights is just like hamburger without the patty in it - there is no point(i.e. there is no love), love enough to put up a fight to resolve conflicting thoughts and issues. 

You will do anything for the person without question. You will wake up early in the morning just to prepare breakfast to be taken to eat in school just because you feel like it, you will spend an entire day going around shopping malls because you want to get the perfect present for the special one. Even when you are exhausted and totally drained out mentally and physically, nothing would ever stop you to make him or her happy. Seeing them smile is the only concern you ever have.

You would feel like if you can't see the person, you can't stop thinking about them. No matter if its a flash of thought when you are busy working, or spending time in bed just thinking about how lucky you are to just be with him. You wouldn't be able to fall asleep because reality is better than your dreams, you get so excited as to what tomorrow is being installed for you. 

You wouldn't go to bed without having a smile on your face after you put down your phone after messaging him/her everyday with a goodnight text, a smile of satisfaction and feeling complete.

You will catch yourself thinking about the future with the person inside it, what kind of house you would be living in, what jobs both of you will be working as in the future.

Even when both of you gets comfortable with each other's company, you will feel like just laying beside him/her and doing nothing but listen to spotify songs on repeat feels like a perfect date. 

You would feel like the relationship would never end, because you have already have found the one. Well, the one in your eyes. 

Sadly, the person whom you deemed as the one, may not view as you are the one in his eyes. It doesn't work both ways. 

Maybe it's the timing is wrong, maybe God has a better plan for both. If someone belongs to you, he/she will find his/her way back to you no matter how long it takes.

'Maybe one day we'll meet again, when we're different people. Maybe then we'll be better for each other.'

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